Do you ever wonder how some people always become successful with regard to their relationships, financials or even health, that too without inventing too much of propaedeutic efforts? Whatever they say, is perceived as thoughtful. Whatever they write becomes inspiring text. Whatever they bring, becomes amazing gift. Whatever they prank becomes ecstatic humor. Whatever they play, becomes genuine game. Whatever they criticize becomes social revolution. Whatever they appreciate becomes majestic recognition. Whatever they decide becomes right decision and whatever they do turns into a right achievement.
What is their magical touch, are they blessed with some kind of powerful fortune? No. They can do these miraculous things only because somehow, they are already living in the ‘house-of-benefits’ of their life’s landscape.
Do you want to be like them? If your answer is yes , then you have just one critical thing to do. You have to “reach” to the house-of-benefits of your life’s landscape. That’s it and that’s all.
The big question is how to reach there? Even bigger question is what is that “ house-of-benefits” ?
Let’s understand these houses at first .
The landscape of your life has many many houses altogether. The count is a big as your life. To name a few let’s look at this precise list ,
- House of your past
- House of your present
- Houses of people and relationships
- Houses of your financials
- Houses of your profession/career
- House of your emotions
- House of your intentions
- House of your personal traits
- …and many more
- House of your future
“Each house” is a consolidated residence of your “each kind of thought” that percolates in your mind-space.“Each house” is a consolidated residence of your “each kind of thought” that percolates in your mind-space. In which house do you live? Looks a strange question but the truth is “you” as a “complete-human-personality” live inside one of these houses most of the time. And that house is the one which significantly contains the “most predominant flavors of thoughts campaigning in your mind on a regular basis”.
It means if you are mostly engaged with your past experiences, feelings or emotions with people then “at present” you are living in the house-of-your-past. If your thoughts are campaigning about your anticipated future , it means “at present” you are living in the house-of-your-future.
It’s not so difficult to gauge If ‘at present” you are living in the house-of-your-present but it’s necessary to discover in which house of “your present” you live most of the time. It is house of emotions or personal-traits , is it house of intentions or personal-gains. Or is it, “the house of benefits” where you really should be?
The house-of-benefits is the one which is always busy in campaigning thoughts about real positive purpose of your life. This house is completely free from the bad experiences of past pertaining to people, objects or situations. This is free from unrealistic imaginations about future. This house is free from every kind of negative emotion like fear, jealously , rage, revenge, anger or pity. Rather, this house is filled with all kind of positive emotions like confidence, courage, empathy, gratitude and happiness. When you are in this house, you are at the peak of your positive energy, affluence, attentiveness and intelligence.
How to reach to the “House-of-Benefits” and live there ?
It’s really difficult but achievable if you have strong zeal to develop a progressive life of success and abundance. The methodology is tough and time taking if you have a stringent habit of living in past or future or even in present but inside the house-of-negative-emotions. On the contrary, this methodology is easy and quick if you allow certain level of flexibility in your personal-traits.
It becomes realistic attainment if you have clarity about your inner-self and courage to refurbish it with dedicated conscious efforts. You can follow the two-step process-
Self-awareness
Touch your inner-self , understand your personality and inner-world carefully.
Self-improvement
Work on your self-improvement plan from the perspective of reaching to the “house-of-benefits”. Think consciously what all qualities you need to develop within you, evaluate what all “houses” of your current living and blocking your road to success. When you have to shift to new house you have to leave the current house at first, remember not to carry the garbage and clutter along with you other wise new house will also just become the “campaign of non-rewarding thoughts”. Start your journey with bare-minimum luggage. Read books , try good consultation opportunities. Initiate the revolution within. Clear your purpose and move further intelligently.